Showing posts with label Bertram. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Bertram. Show all posts

Oct 15, 2009

Probablity of Children having fun. 1:1


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I took Bertram and Vivian to the Queens Museum of Science, it was thrilling.

Possibly Bertram's favorite thing in the museum was the balls falling through a series of pegs into slots that showed the "normal curve" Both visits he insisted on just sitting and watching it for a long time.


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Plenty of time to take pictures of Bert, and his interest also gave me a chance to change and feed Vivian and give her some attention. ... why yes she did come to the museum with us, but didn't interact with the exhibits much, and when she was out of the stroller or sling was not a time when I had hands to pull out a camera. She was however very entertained all day, mostly by watching Bertram run around like a mad man.


Oct 13, 2009

Box of babies.


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Toddler and baby actually. 6 month old Vivian and 2 1/2 Bertram.
Our fridge stopped working so for a couple of days we only had a freezer, but now we have a brand new fridge.
Kind of irrelevant to the photo but I emptied out this bin to put all our food in while they swapped out the refrigerators, but an empty box can't go un-played with.
Mostly my Mr Danger, but Vivian was glad to join too, she loves to do anything Bertram does. And for Bertram's part that's swell too, I know he can't wait until she can really play with him more.


Of course I could not get a photo where both of them were looking at the camera at the same time.

Oct 11, 2009

Sweet big brother


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Sweet big brother gives Vivian toys, sometimes she doesn't need them, but mostly it's very much appreciated by little Vivian who tends to lose hold of whatever she'd got a lose it periodically.


It's been chilly and here Vivian is dressed up to go out, she's looking far more grown up than usual here.

Oct 3, 2009

forces beyond our control

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On our trip to the Kentucky State fair we rode the Merry-go-round three times, Bertram was very excited by the "forces" (horses); at least these painted horses, the real animals were a little to much for the city boy. Cows were OK, and goats were of interest, but cute bunnies, and ducks were apparently terrifying.

Oct 1, 2009

Hugs are fun, and cute.

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Well the song which Bert is singing in these photos just goes Hugs are fun. It's a Yo Gabba Gabba song, though I'm not sure if they say "hugs are fun" Though they often put new words to their tunes, this tune as one of his favorite songs "I like fish") But in this case he shows that he likes Lola at least as much as fish. Hugs seem to inevitably end in a tumble over. About even ods on which child lands on top, and shockingly no injuries. Bertram tried to hug Milo too, but he just wasn't interested.

Sep 25, 2009

baby-dolls

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See Grandma Bertram has dolls. He's gotten very into taking care of his baby doll lately. He likes to play with the cute baby-doll in Mama's arms too. One of these is Rachel's doll he doesn't play with much, but he's got one baby and one skater boy doll that he's named Henry and William. (which are the names of the two baby boys at his sitters. though there not really babies anymore). none the less he puts them to sleep and feeds them, and gives them time out etc...

Sep 21, 2009

Wow airplanes from the outside, and tired boys.


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Final minutes of Bertram an My adventure to Louisville.
This is little Bert out on the tarmac waiting for our bag, he was pretty excited by the airplanes and trucks.
He seemed a lot less tired in person, jabbering about airplanes and trucks, but I did have to get him up at 5:30am for the trip. You can see here just how super tired he was too. We are almost home and he crashed in the cab and was out for 5 hours. But the whole flight he was bouncing boy, and I just managed to snap these shots with my phone while holding on to his arm so he would not go bolting off to see the trucks.

I though I got one with more airplane for Bert to look at, but these should be plenty entertaining. Even though he was ready to drop dead asleep he also seemed ready to take off running on the tarmac, so I didn't want to let go of his arm or I might have been able to get a better shot. (The "camera" was in the bag we were waiting for though)

Apr 26, 2009

Sick boy birthday

045 Cake this year was much more subdued, but I think Bertram may have enjoyed it even more than his first birthday. 033 New Shape sorter including all the shapes Bert loves including Hexagons, Octagons, and parallelograms. All of which it's hilarious to hear him say. He often still calls the parallelograms "gram" or "pentagram" "Pentagram" he came up with himself, and they don't seem to feature in any of his books so I've not been able to switch that word over to it's correct symbol. 003 New Play kitchen for Bert's second Birthday. We set it up in the bedroom the day before so that Mom could play with him and the kitchen a bit. Not to say that Rachel is totally stuck in the bedroom, she is mobile but little Vivian keeps her in the nursing chair quite a lot.

Apr 20, 2009

Did I say daily?

Well, it's not unbelievably exhausting as one is lead to expect, but I'm just enough under slept that I have not managed to get any daily updates posted. Or any of the videos posted at all either. So more pics soon, though even the photos have been a bit slow. But now for the report. Vivian is doing great, and still spends all her time sleeping. Rachel is still in pain and wishes she could sleep more comfortably. Bertram thinks Vivian is fine for now. Vivian saw the doctor and looks great, and has started eating more and gaining weight, she got down to 7lbs 12oz at the end of he hospital stay. Unfortunately her eating is painful for Rachel, apparently to a bit of "tongue tie". We have a little baby swing set up in the play room, and that's the best place to put Vivian for Bert interaction, becasue she is down low enough to be visible, and reachable. Anyway the couple of days Bertram has gone over and told her "I love you Vivian" and given her kisses which is very sweet. He also really wants to push the swing, but much harder than it ought to be pushed. Bertram has been getting lots of attention for the last few days and I hope he is over his worries about his parents leaving for 3 days last week. Though he got to see us every day at the hospital we didn't come home with him, and he has been very concerned to make sure that Daddy comes with him any time he leaves the house, and I'm not sure I can / should leave without him myself any time soon. However he has been beating himself up a lot, he fell off his high chair, fell out of his "big boy bed" and has just been walking into things and hitting himself with cabinet doors etc. No bruises yet, but it's hard on him, he's also been teething something fierce it seems and pretty clingy and whiny at his low points of the day. For the past few weeks counting has been all the rage with Bertram, but that's cooling off, and now he's using 3,4,5 word sentences pretty regularly, and having fun with long words which he just loves right now. Pig-el-let, Decoration come to mind as ones he found quite fun. Singing has also become common for him over the past few weeks, as has jumping. He just jumps and jumps. So he's seems to be doing just swell regardless of his parents preoccupation with baby girl.

Apr 14, 2009

Big Brother is Watching [her]

You are probably not safe from the big eye in the sky, or the nano bugs. But that's no concern to Mr. Danger, who is getting to know Miss. Adventure. Big Brother Bertram was pretty interested in Baby Sister, (though with a toddler attention span). He was also pretty happy to see Mom and Dad, and get to have ice cream (a big boy only food). Vivian was also thoughtful enough to give Bert some books as a gift. We'll see what he thinks tomorrow.

Jan 1, 2009

Xmas in Maui

Well our travels to Maui were long and exasting, but not as bad as it could have been, it looks like our friends spent over 48hrs getting to Maui with the Weather and power outages. And they left the same day as we did. We only got delayed 3.5 hrs for a total of 15.5 hrs of air travel (plus about 1.5 for car). Wow what a monster trip. But Bertram Loved the Ocean, he was afraid of it almost every time we went to the beach, but had a ball once he got over that fear each day. And on the last two days he was totally over it. And luckily for him we were staying at a house on the beach for those days. (maybe that helped get over the fear too) The ocean in Kehei and Makena was a calm as I have ever seen the Pacific, almost too calm as Bertram Loved being hit by the waves the first day out when it there was a bit more action. But even that was super calm. I'm sure it was big surf on the other side of the island, but the south shore was perfect for little boys.

Dec 6, 2008

There is Joy in Repetition

Or so says Prince, and clearly toddlers agree. I was just thinking about this love or repetition, which Bertram clearly shares. He loves his sign language video even though he has seen it numerous times, and now he know what part comes next. It occurs to me that it's probably enjoyable because repetition confirms their understanding of the world. And when you are just starting out that is your prime objective, to figure out the world enough that you can predict what would happen next. We model the universe (as we understand it)so that we can predict what will happen as a result of your actions. So something like a video, or the Animatronic singing snowmen that we borrowed from Milo and Lola, is that they are predictable. Safe and reassuring that you can depend on things to go the way you expect sometimes. And I imagine that for a toddler that is a feeling you don't get often enough in the confusing world. No conclusion to tack onto this, just an observation.

Nov 6, 2008

A Anagram Bred Regret

But I hope that this one does not. So we are thinking about names for our next child due in April exactly 2 years after Bertram. We don't know the sex yet, still waiting one more month until the anatomy scan, but based on the ultra sounds so far (today's in particular) she's likely to be a she. Anyway no names yet, but I was thinking that it needs to be a name with some good anagram possibilities. I ran through a bunch of anagram options for Bertram Danger Eagar when we were working on his name. "A Anagram Bred Regret" is my favorite. Other good options include:
  • Greater Man Dare Brag
  • Am Greater, Bar Danger
  • Grab An Greater Dream
  • Great Arm Earned Brag
But there are lots of options that make more or less sense. I did like Ready as a middle name, and while it's still available it does not go with many girls names well, so it's not a likely option this time either. I hope Bertram enjoys his name and it brings him no other regret than a silly anagram option. Danger is my middle name will probably get old a a joke for him, but I'm sure it will come in handy at least once or twice.

Sep 16, 2008

Grandparents Info link: photos

http://flickr.com/photos/rustproof/tags/bert/ Sorry for lack of Bertram photos lately, one reason is one of our cameras is acting up, and I haven't had time to hit it enough times to get it to work. (that fixes things right?) The other is everyone else seems to have a camera so why take more pictures? Well the reason is that we rarely have time to go collect copies of photos, but here is a quick way to find a few pictures of Milo and Lola's visit to Bert, and his visit over to see them.

Pop Bead Hat

Bertram is still a lively and fun little boy, but Mom and Dad have been pretty busy and exhausted lately So I'll just keep this to a A quick photo blog of Bertram showing off his Pop Bead Hat. Bertram loves hats, His hats, Daddy's hats. Hat: is of course a popular word.

Sep 8, 2008

A smattering of words for the week.

As I expected my word list for Bertram has fallen hopelessly behind. However that seems fine since it's clear that his verbal ability is doing just fine. This post is a bit haphazard since I'm over busy lately, but I do manage to include a good smattering of Bertram's words. And I had better get a move on listing them here because there is no way I'm going to keep up with him for long. Recent additions that I can still recall are: Elbow: wow, that's a mouth full for him, but he like it. And it's less painful to point out than a nose tweak. Belly / Belly Button: Luckily without a tweak involved at all. Toy: Nothing exciting to report other than the fact that he can use general and specific words for the same thing. And understands the abstract group "toys" Play: which he both says and signs. The sign is a double shaka, (a.k.a. the surfer hand signal, "hang loose") which I think is just great. He does not quite have the gesture down yet, but I imagine it might come in handy some day. Slide: Swing: Goose: surprised me, I didn't know he was learning that one but he spots it in the book and at the Zoo a couple of weekends ago. Which reminds me of the many other animals Bertram can identify and say: Duck: a long time favorite, he quacks too. Dog / Doggy: which he signs and says, and barks. (he is sometimes afraid of dogs but not always). I don't think he has picked up Puppy yet. Frog / Froggy: Butterfly: which started out Fly, but is getting the butter added on lately. I'd like to include Bumblebee because he loves to try and say it, but it's just to hard to get out that many syllables. And he's not content to call them "bees" so they are yet and un-mastered animal. Cat / Kitty Cat / Catty: He also says Meow, and is quite fond of cats, real and photo. Cow: He signs and says cow, but never has any interest in saying Moo. I recall when he first worked this word out, it was one of the first words he said, and he was still working out how to control the sounds he was making. We were out at a restaurant and had brought along a plastic cow from a farm set Grandma Tricia bought for Bertram birthday, and he correctly identified it as "cow" and was so delighted to have managed that that he went ahead and said cow some 50 or so times with various adjustments to the pronunciation. This super repetition was really only given to Cow and Fan, most other words popped up a few times a day for a couple of days, and then disappeared for a week or two before becoming standards. Now days a new word will get extra use for the first week but then does not seem to have the disappearing habit, it just goes into normal rotation. Lion: He loves to say and identify lions, though I think perhaps only male lions are clearly lions so far. Monkey: which he signs but does not say, or not much. It's quite a cute sign, just act like a monkey. His initial vague variation on the Monkey sign was very cute, but unlikely to mean monkey to anyone but his very attentive parents. Much like his Fish sign will only mean fish to us. But it's interesting to see how it has gradually started to get closer to the correctly executed sign. I don't think anyone would guess monkey, but I think they could see what he's trying to do. It's still cute, and when he gets it just right and can stick his finger in his armpits and wiggle them while saying "ooh ooh" I'm sure it will be both cute and embarrassing for the parents. (the saying ooh ooh part is not technically part of the sign, but I can't help doing it myself) In fact I have a bad habit of telling him he looks like a monkey when he is at the park and he grabs hold of the safety railing bars on the equipment and shakes them (well shakes himself) and screams with joy and tries to shove his face through the bars. And he often replies by signing Monkey. More useful words: Go: which he signs and says, an old standby that he's been using for a long time. Please: still working on using this one more but it's going OK. He signs and says please. And as added entertainment, in one of his alphabet books there is a picture of vegetables including "peas" which he can correctly identify, but along with the sign for "please" which means we are probably being very confusing to him suggesting that he ought to say "peas" when he wants some toast or a cookie. But he takes it in stride. Thank You: which he says sometimes and has for quite a while, but now he says it at more appropriate times. He has a habit of picking up small things (like the things that should not be on the floor of an infants home such as bits of paper, fuzz, leafs) and handing them to you. To which we always reply thank you. Or when he hands us his ball or toy to share we say thank you. So Bertram figured that out quick and so whenever he gave you something he would say "thank you" well "ankoo". But he's got that pretty well sorted out and knows that you also say it when getting something. Early on Bertram loved talking and used his words at home and out, but lately he has become very shy. He won't even say hi and goodbye most of the time. Which covers two more words; interestingly he says Goodbye not bye, but only uses hello on the phone (toy cellphones, or when he grabs our phones), but says hi to greet people. Not sure he knows Hello : Hi are the same greeting or if he knows why you say "hello" on the phone at all. I've been trying to get him to say "I would like a large peperoni pizza" whenever he is on the cell phone, but that's been going no where so far.

Aug 29, 2008

He inexplicably mimicked me hiccuping

Well, not really hiccuping but Bertram has become an expert at mimicking, he still pronounces his works in that hard to distinguish baby way which means only mom and dad and a few other trained ears can make out a lot of what he is saying. I's say about half of his words are pronounced well enough for the general public, and half fall into the mushy area. However today at the Pharmacy while waiting for a prescription I took Bertram out of the stroller to run around, and he was patting on one of the waiting chairs and just blabbing nothing. (or at least nothing I could distinguish, something like ba be ba sush sush) Then another nice couple comes up, to wait in line, and Bertram is giving him his big making friends smile that everyone gets, and they ask if he is saying chair? To which I say no he doesn't say chair yet, but maybe Blue (which he says, and the chair is blue). I give Bert the prompting look, and I say "blue", he thinks about it and says ... "chair". Now I don't think, or at least I'm not sure he knows what chair means just yet. He is a good mimic and if you say something 10 times he's likely to give that word a try too. (depending on his mood) Which is why before I add a word to my list I wait until he provides it at the appropriate time without prompting. Such as when looking at an ABC book I point out the 'A', 'B', and 'C' on the cover, and he points to the 'A' as well and says "A". That's great but I don't expect him to really know 'A' just yet. But the next time when I point to 'A' and he says "AAAY" and hops of my lap to go get another alphabet book and show me it also has an 'A' on the cover, then clearly he really does have it down. It's only the letter 'A', and only caps. 'C' is generally identified as "Ball" or "D", and 'B' holds no interest whatsoever. So let's see which of Bertrams words have we covered. "A": maybe not a word, but it's on my list Ball: a very early word for him, and a mega favorite. It's one of the few he started saying, and now he signs it too. Blue: quite recent, and only very clearly identifies blue in one animal book, which has a color page. But he's identified it correctly in other circumstances. He also reminded me today to include a few of his other favorites. Baby: which he signs and says, and he loves his baby doll, on which he can point out the nose and eyes. (maybe ears) Nose: a very early word for him, which he also identifies on himself, and us by grabbing hold of quite painfully Eyes: which luckily he does not poke to indicate. Socks: which often get's confused with shoes, but we work it out. He insisted on putting on socks today, (we were putting away the laundry) but it was just to hot, so I only let him wear them for a few minutes. Ding: another brand new one, he's got a lot of much more practical ones, but this week seems to be about the onomatopoeia's. Today when the toaster bell went off in the kitchen from Mommy making some toast, Bertram and I were in his room and he took off like flash yelling "Ding" to go tell mom in the kitchen that something went "ding". He also brought up various Ding's several times today. I think were were some other new words today, but I can't keep track and I've probably fallen hopelessly behind in my list. But he can remind me about them all weekend.

Aug 26, 2008

Those are Dangerous Words

So I've been keeping a list of words that Bertram has learned to say or sign. It's funny when people ask if he has learned any words. Because he has known many many words for a long time, he understands them just fine. The question is has he learned to "say" any words. Which of course he has, lots and lots. It started out slow, and a new word would appear and then disappear for a few weeks, which made me wonder. But then it would creep back in, and there are weeks when I hear a new word every day from Bert, which sounds like an exaggeration even to me. But keeping the list it really is true, even on the "slow" weeks there are probably at least 2 or 3 new words. I've noted down a little about each word, and each is probably worth a sentence or two about why he likes that word, and a list of 60 works is not that interesting so I'm going to start transferring my list here and maybe try to fill out some of those remarks. I doubt that it's particularly interesting to the world in general, but Grandparents and Great-Grandparents may want to know. The list is 62 words right now, and I think I'll do them a few at a time so it's bound to be longer by the end. But I'll start with a few of the newest. nany nany: clearly baby talk this is nap in Romanian, and he learned this at the sitters. So I don't know much of the story other than to say that Bertram hates to nap or to sleep at all. He's wobbling between the two short naps he used to take and just one nap. Unfortunalty the one nap is not long enough for him and he ends up with big bags under his eyes, and pretty upset at bedtime. He was taking one nap at 10 or 11 ish in the morning and 3 or 4 ish in the evening. Though I hear he would take one long nap at the sitters instead often. Now he just skips one of those no matter what we do, but those are still the times when he gets tired. hair: this is another one I don't know how he learned, but the sitter suggested that he knew it, and yup he does. Maybe one of the other kids really likes hair, or maybe one is a grabber? Bert happily does not pull our hair. bean: Bertram has loved to eat black beans for a long time, but it was Mommy getting him some dried Lima beans to play with that got him to say it. She read about using them for practicing spooning, which he really does need to practice, but giving him food that needs spooning is asking for a big mess, so we are on mostly finger foods now days. mine: oh well, I guess he learned that from the 2 year old's at the sitter's for sure. We like to hope that's where he learned No as well. I haven't heard it that much yet, but he did say mine and play keep away with a toy when he was visiting his friend Charlie last weekend. On the up side it was the first time that they really played together, they are both walking and chased each other around Josh and Jessica's new apartment. bang: I thought he was trying to say bean which he pronounces 'bien' but it turns out he was saying bang, which is what we say he is doing when he hits the measuring cup on the floor. Its great to get more verbs into his vocabulary, they are a lot more tricky. He does pronounce it a bit Biang. the 'B' sound just seems to want an short i sound after it according to Bertram. beep: He also mimics us saying beep, I do tend to say "beep" though had not felt like I was doing it that much. But Bert sure has plenty of toys that beep. Though far less than a lot of friends, we do tend to hide them away so they get less use, and he seems to prefer things like balls, the beans, straws, and bits of paper now days. Not that he shuns his bright colored toys, but he wants the kind of stuff the adults have. whale: Mr. Danger was incredulous that the photos in the animal book and the plastic squirt bath toy whale were the same thing, but believes it now, or at least uses the same word for them both. Grandma Tricia bought him the bath squirt toys for his birthday when she was visiting, and he has loved to get squirted with them for a long time, but he has only managed to start squirting himself with them a couple of weeks ago. He was so excited to figure it out that he just screamed and bounced the whole bath. He kept squirting himself in the face, eyes, mouth: which would have made him quite mad if I did it. However it seems to be the preferred thing to do with the whale now that he can make it squirt. one more for today, and it's not a new one. shoes: Bert both signs and says shoes. He has been signing it for well over a month I don't recall, and saying it for quite a while as well, but I'll include it in this batch because Bertram just got some new shoes. They are his first "real" shoes, stiff leather things with soles. They should do for the fall, he's been wearing some transitional sandals all summer. But the sandals with leather souls are a bit slippery, and can be a problem at the park, and his feet just barely fit in them. So when we were visiting Charlie this weekend we stopped by the highly recommended Buster Brown store in Forest Hills to get his feet measured and fit for fall shoes. Bert really loves his new shoes, and is very happy to say shoe shoe shoe for you.

Jul 8, 2008

To make up for lack of photos

Until I get the photos from the recent trip from other peoples cameras, I'll try and make amends by providing some of the photos from Bert's last big trip.

Bert's first, or maybe 20th steps.

I know everyone has been eagerly awaiting Bertram's first steps. Well maybe Mom and Dad are a bit neutral, on the one hand not watching out for dirty or bruised knees is a plus; as is being able to put Mr. Danger down for a moment in a restaurant. However keeping up with a toddling boy sounds like a lot of work. None the less Mr. Danger is on his way. Over the 4th of July weekend away visiting grandma and great grandma, (and aunts and cousins a well) Bert managed a few steps on his own. I think he's tried a few steps before, but not with much success, so maybe those were his first steps. He's not walking on his own yet of course, but yesterday, and today he did manage to take a few steps and not topple over. Or sit-fall as he tends to do very gracefully. In fact those steps often look like it's a lot of work:
  • Take one little step
  • deep knee bend squat to gain/maintain balance
  • lift back to standing
  • one little step
  • repeat
But he has lots of energy to practice with, also this weekend Bertram did a Marathon walk when we went to the park with cousins Frank and Luke. We walked from the edge of the outfield to home base and back. Frank and Luke had a race of the same distance, but Bertram and I just tagged along with the challenge to finish, not to win. I have to say I was very impressed and surprised by his determination to go all the way, I though for sure we would give upon hte way back. Unfortunatly we were bad parents and didn't take any pictures, but it was because there were plenty of other cameras out. Now I'm not sure how to get those photos, but I'll see what I can do.